Staying Encouraged in a Time of Chaos
I have been a bit behind on writing this chapter. If I were completely honest about it, I might say it is difficult to write an encouraging and actionable museletter in the midst of a snowstorm of bad news from every known media outlet. For example, this from Peggy Noonan’s latestWall Street Journal Weekend Edition column pretty well sums it up:
“At a symposium in Colorado at which thoughtful people from many professions spoke, and later in conversation with people who care about books in California, two things we all know to be true became more vivid to me.
“The first is that nobody is optimistic about the world economy. No one sees the Western nations righting themselves any time soon; no one sees lower unemployment coming down the pike, or fewer foreclosures. No one was burly: “Everything will be fine, snap out of it!” Everyone admitted tough times lie ahead. “
What can I add to this? My investment guru in Aspen says, “It is generational.” This means it is going to be a long, long time before the developed world (and now China?) gets out of the hole.
But, despite this swamp of bad tidings on the macroeconomic front, I take great encouragement from the imagination and initiative of numerous individual social entrepreneurs I work with daily who are committed to difference making.
I received a real boost yesterday morning. The situation was a conference call where my objective was to introduce two of my longtime friends who needed to know one another. Both of them have been vigorously engaged in what I call parallel careers for years. Most of you would probably recognize their names. Both of them said they had plenty of success and plenty of significance. One has been active in business and politics. The other is prominent in developing a brand of feminism that fits well with Christian values. And both are of a mind to commit 75-100% of their lives to doing “whatever God tells them to do.” It is what I have been lately calling Life III, a life of surrender to self transcendent values.
As I have said many times before, increased longevity and affluence means that quite a few of us will have the luxury of having several different seasons within one lifetime. A longtime friend and former USA Today writer, Bruce Rosenstein, captured this new reality in a book released a couple of years ago titled Living in More Than One World. Bruce’s book is entirely based on his interviews and years of experience with Peter Drucker. I got around to reading it this past weekend. It is perhaps the best book I have seen about Peter’s advice to those of us in the Second Half of our lives who want to press on.
Bruce writes as a journalist used to simple language, tight deadlines and direct quotes – it is all familiar from what Peter told me in our priceless years together. Well organized and to the point – 134 pages, double spaced, five chapters. Here is a generous sample. It is like sitting with Peter on his enclosed back porch one on one.
I will begin this time and do a Part II in my next museletter.
Chapter 1 – Designing Your Total Life
“The — I wouldn’t say happy people, but satisfied, contented — people I knew were more people that lived in more than one world. Those single-minded people – you meet them most in politics – in the end are very unhappy people.”
“No one but the knowledge workers themselves can come to grips with the question of what in work, job performance, social status and pride constitutes the personal satisfaction that makes a knowledge worker feel that she contributes, performs, serves her values and fulfills herself.”
Peter encouraged me to spread my time and talents out on more than one activity. He gave me the phrase “parallel career” that guided the middle part of my life before I sold my company to become a fulltime Social Entrepreneur at age 60. No one could have made this choice for me.
“What matters is that the knowledge worker, by the time he or she reaches middle age, has developed and nourished a human being rather than a tax accountant or a hydraulic engineer. Otherwise a few years later, tax accounting or hydraulic engineering will become awfully stale and boring.”
“The effective people I know simply discipline themselves to have enough time for thinking … in effect managing oneself demands that each knowledge worker can think and behave like a Chief Executive Officer.”
The day I sold my company, I had underway a very fulfilling career (Leadership Network and Halftime) to fill my life with.
Chapter 2 – Developing Your Core Competencies
One of the best values Peter developed in me was to “build on the islands of health and strength” in myself and in others. There is now a full blown “discover your strengths” industry with bestselling books by Tom Rath and Marcus Buckingham. The tool we use in Halftime Institute is calledStrengthsFinder 2.0. The book provides access via PIN to a half hour computer driven questionnaire that clearly identifies your top five strengths. These are transferable from a work situation to a family situation to a social entrepreneurship career. The idea is to focus on what you do best and say no to the rest.
“People are effective because they say ‘no,’ not because they say ‘yes.’ Because they say this isn’t for me … the people I’ve seen that are really unhappy are in a position where the values of the organization don’t fit them … Learn to manage your time. The secret is not to do the 5 million things that do not need to be done and never will be missed.”
“Every few years, try, consciously or not, something new … I think that changes with age … you must learn systematic abandonment. Ask if I did not do this already, would I knowing what I know now, go into it?”
I can identify five different seasons in my life:
>>>Student>>>Apprentice>>>Leader>>>Parallel Significance Career
>>>Sell company to have full time “significance career.”
I will develop the next two chapters of Living in More Than One World in Part II. Meanwhile you would be well served by reading Bruce’s book. I recommend the print version so that you can answer the “Ask Yourself” questions in the margins.
Also Recommended In the same vein for working women seeking balance and fulfilling lives:
Work, Love, Pray: Practical Wisdom for Young Professional Christian Women, Diane Paddison
In Work, Love, Pray, Diane Paddison, accomplished corporate executive, pens her own experience of balancing work and family, while keeping her faith at her core all the while. In a warm and forthright voice, she also shares stories of many women of various ages throughout the book to evoke inspiration in all of us to use our gifts without sacrificing what is most important-our relationship with God.