Staying Encouraged in a Time of Chaos 

I have been a bit behind on writing this chapter.  If I were completely honest about it, I might say it is difficult to write an encouraging and actionable museletter in the midst of a snowstorm of bad news from every known media outlet.  For example, this from Peggy Noonan’s latestWall Street Journal Weekend Edition column pretty well sums it up:  

“At a symposium in Colorado at which thoughtful people from many professions spoke, and later in conversation with people who care about books in California, two things we all know to be true became more vivid to me.

“The first is that nobody is optimistic about the world economy. No one sees the Western nations righting themselves any time soon; no one sees lower unemployment coming down the pike, or fewer foreclosures. No one was burly: “Everything will be fine, snap out of it!” Everyone admitted tough times lie ahead. “

What can I add to this?  My investment guru in Aspen says, “It is generational.”  This means it is going to be a long, long time before the developed world (and now China?) gets out of the hole. 

But, despite this swamp of bad tidings on the macroeconomic front, I take great encouragement from the imagination and initiative of numerous individual social entrepreneurs I work with daily who are committed to difference making. 

I received a real boost yesterday morning.  The situation was a conference call where my objective was to introduce two of my longtime friends who needed to know one another.  Both of them have been vigorously engaged in what I call parallel careers for years.  Most of you would probably recognize their names.  Both of them said they had plenty of success and plenty of significance.  One has been active in business and politics.  The other is prominent in developing a brand of feminism that fits well with Christian values.  And both are of a mind to commit 75-100% of their lives to doing “whatever God tells them to do.”  It is what I have been lately calling Life III, a life of surrender to self transcendent values. 

As I have said many times before, increased longevity and affluence means that quite a few of us will have the luxury of having several different seasons within one lifetime.  A longtime friend and former USA Today writer, Bruce Rosenstein, captured this new reality in a book released a couple of years ago titled Living in More Than One World.  Bruce’s book is entirely based on his interviews and years of experience with Peter Drucker.  I got around to reading it this past weekend.  It is perhaps the best book I have seen about Peter’s advice to those of us in the Second Half of our lives who want to press on. 

Bruce writes as a journalist used to simple language, tight deadlines and direct quotes – it is all familiar from what Peter told me in our priceless years together.  Well organized and to the point – 134 pages, double spaced, five chapters.  Here is a generous sample.  It is like sitting with Peter on his enclosed back porch one on one. 

I will begin this time and do a Part II in my next museletter. 

 

Chapter 1 – Designing Your Total Life 

“The — I wouldn’t say happy people, but satisfied, contented — people I knew were more people that lived in more than one world.  Those single-minded people – you meet them most in politics – in the end are very unhappy people.” 

“No one but the knowledge workers themselves can come to grips with the question of what in work, job performance, social status and pride constitutes the personal satisfaction that makes a knowledge worker feel that she contributes, performs, serves her values and fulfills herself.” 

Peter encouraged me to spread my time and talents out on more than one activity.  He gave me the phrase “parallel career” that guided the middle part of my life before I sold my company to become a fulltime Social Entrepreneur at age 60.  No one could have made this choice for me. 

“What matters is that the knowledge worker, by the time he or she reaches middle age, has developed and nourished a human being rather than a tax accountant or a hydraulic engineer.  Otherwise a few years later, tax accounting or hydraulic engineering will become awfully stale and boring.” 

“The effective people I know simply discipline themselves to have enough time for thinking … in effect managing oneself demands that each knowledge worker can think and behave like a Chief Executive Officer.” 

The day I sold my company, I had underway a very fulfilling career (Leadership Network and Halftime) to fill my life with. 

 

Chapter 2 – Developing Your Core Competencies 

One of the best values Peter developed in me was to “build on the islands of health and strength” in myself and in others.  There is now a full blown “discover your strengths” industry with bestselling books by Tom Rath and Marcus Buckingham.  The tool we use in Halftime Institute is calledStrengthsFinder 2.0.  The book provides access via PIN to a half hour computer driven questionnaire that clearly identifies your top five strengths.  These are transferable from a work situation to a family situation to a social entrepreneurship career.  The idea is to focus on what you do best and say no to the rest. 

“People are effective because they say ‘no,’ not because they say ‘yes.’  Because they say this isn’t for me … the people I’ve seen that are really unhappy are in a position where the values of the organization don’t fit them … Learn to manage your time. The secret is not to do the 5 million things that do not need to be done and never will be missed.”

“Every few years, try, consciously or not, something new … I think that changes with age … you must learn systematic abandonment.  Ask if I did not do this already, would I knowing what I know now, go into it?” 

I can identify five different seasons in my life: 

>>>Student>>>Apprentice>>>Leader>>>Parallel Significance Career         

>>>Sell company to have full time “significance career.” 

I will develop the next two chapters of Living in More Than One World in Part II.  Meanwhile you would be well served by reading Bruce’s book.  I recommend the print version so that you can answer the “Ask Yourself” questions in the margins. 

 

Also Recommended  In the same vein for working women seeking balance and fulfilling lives: 

Work, Love, Pray: Practical Wisdom for Young Professional Christian Women, Diane Paddison

In Work, Love, Pray, Diane Paddison, accomplished corporate executive, pens her own experience of balancing work and family, while keeping her faith at her core all the while. In a warm and forthright voice, she also shares stories of many women of various ages throughout the book to evoke inspiration in all of us to use our gifts without sacrificing what is most important-our relationship with God.

From time to time, ACTIVEenergy will repost some of my musings from years past.  Enjoy this conversation between two giants.

A Conversation: Rick Warren and Peter Drucker

I have said that the theme and method of these e-mails will be to continue the “Let’s do lunch” format I used in Finishing Well – letting you, the reader, sit in on conversations with some great people as they make the most of their Life II changes and opportunities.

This time, I’m going to sit silently with you to listen in on a remarkable conversation between two giants. This conversation took place on January 22, 2003 between Rick Warren and Peter Drucker at Peter’s home in Claremont, California. Rick is asking for Peter’s wisdom about issues of growth and succession. Rick’s church, Saddleback (www.saddleback.com), had grown by more than 3,000 people in just 40 days using a strategy called “40 days of purpose.”

Fortunately, Rick taped and transcribed the conversation. Both men have given me permission to share this remarkable moment in time via ACTIVEenergy.net. You will find it useful in the context of any situation of organizational growth and the leadership of change. It is also a superb example of mentoring.

Rick reminded me that the numbers have changed in two years. Have they ever! His Purpose Driven Life and Purpose Driven Church books have now sold more than 23 million copies. Rick’s 12 Easter services drew 45,000 attendees. I’m using the “What is God Doing Now” section this time to show you the Purpose Driven Covenant as an example of Rick’s next initiative and its spirit. Since their conversation covers several topics and since I want to show what God is doing now through Rick, this newsletter is longer than usual. Stick with it. It’s worth it.

At this time, Peter was 93 and Rick was 49. Here’s what they said:

 

Peter: Rick, you are moving from just being a church to being… I hate to say the word… to being a denomination. How old are you now?

 

Rick: I’m 49.

Peter: You’re still young yet…. but what it your plan for succession?

Rick: That’s one of the issues I came to talk about! I’ve been thinking about it for about five years.

Peter: Generally, successors have not done well. Some of them have been in our program. The ones who do worst are the ones who try to imitate their predecessors and fall flat on their faces. Others have just lost their spark.

Rick: In one sense, I’ve been preparing for succession since the church began because it has always been my goal, from day one, to work myself out of a job. I really enjoy giving the responsibility away and empowering others. This past year, my plan was put to the test. I took seven months off from preaching and leading the church in order to write The Purpose Driven Life and design the 40 Days of Purpose campaign. But during those seven months, the church actually grew! I think it is because we built the church on a system – a purpose driven process, not my personality. You’ve taught me that charisma is worthless, and can be dangerous. My successor will be the system we’ve built. I think I could drop dead right now and the church wouldn’t miss me at all.

Peter: Well, here is what I’ve seen as your strengths: First, you have revitalized the sermon. You are a very strong preacher. This is different from most conventional churches where the sermon has become just a formality. It doesn’t really stir people hearts and minds, but yours does. Second, you have made sure that a very large proportion of your members are not just attendants but volunteers in serving. This is a great strength. What percentages of your members are serving?

Rick: Almost 50 percent.

Peter: That high?

Rick: Yes, we have about 9,000 lay ministers with about 18,000 attending on the weekends.

Peter: Also, you have a very strong organized bible study group system. Right?

Rick: Yes. We have an extensive small group system. I never wanted the church to be built solely on my preaching gifts, like a giant one-room schoolhouse or a tent revival. So about 10 years ago, I intentionally started sharing the preaching. I recruited a strong teaching team to share the load (we have six services) so that now I only speak about half the time. Each of these guys is very different in personality from me.

Peter: When you are selecting a candidate for the ministry, what are you looking for?

Rick: Are you referring to our lay ministers or staff ministers?

Peter: Both.

Rick: Well, one of our values is what I call “the good enough” principle. A person doesn’t have to be perfect for God to use them. Because we want our church to be a model for other churches, we want average people doing average activities in order to get extraordinary results. Just like how the typical McDonalds is able to succeed while being staffed by high school students. Because the system works, it doesn’t require unusual talent.

Rick: The truth is, there aren’t enough superstar talents in the world to get the job done. Some churches hold up such a standard of excellence that they basically say to volunteers “If you’re not a professional, you don’t need to apply, because we only want the very best.” That creates a congregation of passive spectators. On the other hand, our growth has happened because we hold to the “good enough” principle,” which allows far more people to get involved. We simplify everything and accept less than perfect performance in order to mobilize more people.

Peter: That’s good. But even with that, now your church has become too big for you to pastor by yourself.

Rick: Of course. We depend on the lay ministers to pastor the people. In fact, this past year we actually shrunk our paid staff by 50 people because I noticed that every time we added a staff member, it took away about five jobs that could be done by volunteers. We were headed in the wrong direction (having everything done by professionals), so I stopped that immediately! I want broad-based involvement by the members, not the pastors doing it all. Ironically, in the same year that we reduced our staff by 50 people, our attendance increased!

Peter: What you describe implies having somebody like you in the organization that is the disturbing element. I’m serious. Someone who is always shaking things up. That must be somebody who is free enough from the day to day managing to do this. Usually nobody is ever free enough from day to day duties to have the energy and commitment to be a disturber inside a large organization. I don’t remember how many thousands of members you have now but you have shown that a large congregation can work. But it only works because your church is composed, to a very large extent, of many smaller congregations if you will. These groups come together to renew their commitment on Sundays.

Rick: I don’t want the church to be one big fat cell. I want thousands of cells.

Peter: That works – on one condition. That there is a Rick Warren. Somebody like a Rick Warren who is the energy and the conscience and the example of the movement.

Rick: You know, Peter, I don’t think many people are attracted to a church because of its large size. I’m not. I don’t particularly like those stadium churches. I think people put up with the large size because their personal needs are met by programs, groups, and preaching. Actually the bigger a church becomes the more potential for inconvenience (such as having to park a long distance from the service). The only people who like big church services are pastors! (laughter)

Two weeks ago, I spent a few hours with Bob Buford who always passes on great nuggets from the life of Peter Drucker. Through the dialogue we came to what Drucker called the “tasks of the CEO in the new millennium.” I know that connecting the role of the senior pastor to the role of a CEO will, no doubt, cast a shadow on what I am about to say for some. Yet I believe that Drucker’s insights have profound implications for the role of the senior pastor who wants to make a difference. These are adaptations from chapter 43 of Drucker’s book entitled, Management.

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Peter Drucker’s landmark book, Management: Tasks, Responsibilities, and Pactices originally include a preface titled, The Alternative to Tyranny.  This preface provided profound insights into why Peter did what he did for all those years–he fought back tyranny.

 

Preface:

The Alternative to Tyranny

It is fashionable today to talk of a revolt against authority and to proclaim that everybody should “do his own thing.” This, then, I have to admit, is a most unfashionable book. It does not talk about rights. It stresses responsibility. Its focus is not on doing one’s own thing but on performance.

Our society has become, within an incredibly short fifty years, a society of institutions. It has become a pluralist society in which every major social task has been entrusted to large organizations—from producing economic goods and services to health care, from social security and welfare to education, from the search for new knowledge to the protection of the natural environment.

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